Not all people are cut out to do this and some are better at it than others. Sometimes even the best instructors have customers whose personalities just don’t mesh with theirs.
When shopping for and instructor, here are some important considerations:
Riding style, level, and instructor are not the only criteria you need in selecting the right stable; you also need to assess the quality of the stable by the care and attention to the animals. The "fanciness" of the facility does not always have anything to do with the quality of the work done there. It does not have to be fancy - just safe. How do the horses look? Are they healthy? Do the horses look well cared for, sleek, and fit? Are the saddles and bridles clean and in good condition? Are riders required to wear safety helmets and shoes with a heel? Such conditions and requirements will give you a good idea as to whether you or your child will gain good stable management and riding skills in a safe environment.
Second, remember that your instructor is running a business. Treat them with respect, pay your bills on time and, if things work out you could build a fulfilling long–term relationship. If things don’t work out, move on, gracefully.
Remember horses are animals, they're not automatic, you cannot turn them on and off like a machine.
The #1 question I get the most is: "How long will it take for me to learn to ride?" My answer is to always consider yourself a work in progress. Even Olympic and world champion riders take lessons.
WARNING
UNDER TEXAS LAW (CHAPTER 87, CIVIL PRACTICE AND REMEDIES CODE), AN EQUINE PROFESSIONAL IS NOT LIABLE FOR AN INJURY TO OR THE DEATH OF A PARTICIPANT IN EQUINE ACTIVITIES RESULTING FROM THE INHERENT RISKS OF EQUINE ACTIVITIES.